\u00dcsk\u00fcdar \u00dcniversitesi \u0130nsan ve Toplum Bilimleri Fak\u00fcltesi Sosyoloji B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc\u2019nden Dr. Berat Da\u011f, 14 \u015eubat Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc dolay\u0131s\u0131yla sevgililik k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcndeki d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc de\u011ferlendirdi.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de sevgililik ili\u015fkileri muhtelif g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcmler sergiliyor<\/strong><\/p>\n Son y\u0131llarda sevgililik kavram\u0131n\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ge\u00e7irdi\u011fini ifade eden Dr. Berat Da\u011f, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de e\u015fzamanl\u0131 olarak farkl\u0131 ili\u015fki bi\u00e7imlerinin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n \u201cT\u00fcrkiye’de sevgililik ili\u015fkilerinin son s\u00fcre\u00e7te muhtelif g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcmleri oldu\u011fu ifade edilebilir. \u00dclkede e\u015fzamanl\u0131 olarak g\u00fcven, sevgi ve sayg\u0131ya dayal\u0131 uzun s\u00fcreli ili\u015fkiler g\u00f6r\u00fclebildi\u011fi gibi, bu ili\u015fkilerin bunun tersini kapsayan k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli \u00f6rnekleri de mevcuttur\u201d diyen Dr. Berat Da\u011f, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bireycile\u015fmenin baz\u0131 ili\u015fkileri e\u015fitsiz ve bask\u0131c\u0131 bir zemine ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaydetti.<\/p>\n Toplumda tarih\u00ee de\u011ferlerle yeni kazan\u0131mlar\u0131n bir arada var oldu\u011funa i\u015faret eden Dr. Da\u011f, \u201cBug\u00fcn taraflar\u0131n kendi bireyselli\u011fini muhafaza ederek birbiriyle itidalli etkile\u015fimler kurma bi\u00e7imlerini \u00e7o\u011fulla\u015ft\u0131rmak kritiktir\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n Medyadaki erkek fig\u00fcr\u00fc ataerkillik\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Televizyon dizileri ve dijital platformlarda s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fclen \u201cg\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, sert, mafyatik erkek\u201d fig\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn romantize edilmesini de de\u011ferlendiren Dr. Da\u011f, bunun toplumsal cinsiyet in\u015fas\u0131yla do\u011frudan ili\u015fkili oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n \u201cKonvansiyonel ve yeni medyada s\u0131kl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan erkek fig\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn, ataerkillik ve kapitalizmin \u015fekillendirdi\u011fi bir toplumsal cinsiyet in\u015fas\u0131yla ili\u015fkisi oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir\u201d diyen Dr. Berat Da\u011f, medyan\u0131n bu s\u00fcreci s\u00fcreklile\u015ftiren \u00f6nemli ayg\u0131tlardan biri oldu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n Bu fig\u00fcr\u00fcn d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kalan bireylerin hayat\u0131n farkl\u0131 alanlar\u0131nda daha kolay s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fclebilece\u011fine ve bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda kalabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken Dr. Da\u011f, \u201cBu ba\u011flamda medyan\u0131n kahiri ekseriyetinin erkek tahakk\u00fcm\u00fcne r\u0131za g\u00f6sterilen bu s\u00fcreci s\u00fcreklile\u015ftiren ayg\u0131tlardan biri oldu\u011fu vurgulanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Medyalar ve toplumsal cinsiyet in\u015falar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 etkile\u015fimi ba\u011flam\u0131nda bu fig\u00fcr\u00fcn d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kalanlar\u0131n do\u011fdu\u011fu ailede, okulda, arkada\u015fl\u0131k ortam\u0131nda, sevgililik ili\u015fkilerinde, kendi kurdu\u011fu ailede, i\u015fte ve siyasi hayatta hem s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fclmesi hem de bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda kalmas\u0131 kolayla\u015fmaktad\u0131r.\u201d diye konu\u015ftu. \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u015eiddet ve hiyerar\u015fi temelli ili\u015fki bi\u00e7imi yayg\u0131nla\u015f\u0131yor<\/strong><\/p>\n Gen\u00e7lerin partner se\u00e7imlerinde \u201cg\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, sert, mafyatik erkek\u201d karakterlerinin etkili olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da de\u011ferlendiren Dr. Berat Da\u011f, \u015fiddet ve hiyerar\u015fiye dayal\u0131 ili\u015fki bi\u00e7imlerinin zaten toplumsal zeminde ivme kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade etti.<\/p>\n \u015eiddet ve hiyerar\u015fiye dayal\u0131 ili\u015fki bi\u00e7iminin, \u00fclkede zaten ivme kazanarak s\u00fcreklilik g\u00f6steren bir nitelik ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren Dr. Da\u011f, \u201cBu yap\u0131n\u0131n taklit yoluyla toplumsal d\u00fczeyde yayg\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131 ise partner ili\u015fkilerini olumsuz etkilemektedir.\u00a0Bireyin nedensizlik \u00fczerinden geometrik olarak artan sahici bir sevgi duygusunu \u00e7o\u011fulla\u015ft\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n Mafyatik ya da toksik ili\u015fki modelleri \u2018\u00e7ekici\u2019 sunuluyor<\/strong><\/p>\n Mafyatik ya da toksik ili\u015fki modellerinin \u2018\u00e7ekici\u2019 olarak sunulmas\u0131n\u0131n \u015fiddeti normalle\u015ftirip normalle\u015ftirmedi\u011fine ili\u015fkin ise Dr. Da\u011f, \u201c\u015eiddet ve hiyerar\u015fi \u00fczerinden \u015fekillenen ili\u015fkilerin me\u015frula\u015fmas\u0131 noktas\u0131nda bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131 etkenden s\u00f6z etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Bu etkenlerden biri de y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ili\u015fki bi\u00e7imlerinin do\u011fal ve \u00e7ekici oldu\u011funa do\u011frudan veya dolayl\u0131 olarak i\u015faret eden s\u00f6z ve eylemlerdir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla toplumsal kurumlar\u0131n e\u015fg\u00fcd\u00fcml\u00fc olarak zengin, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131, h\u00e2kim ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir erkekli\u011fi me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131 s\u00fcreci, aslen uzun s\u00fcrelidir.\u201d de\u011ferlendirmesinde bulundu.<\/p>\n Date k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc olumlu nitelikler bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor ancak\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Son y\u0131llarda yayg\u0131nla\u015fan \u201cdate\u201d k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne de de\u011finen Dr. Berat Da\u011f, \u201cBireylerin bir ili\u015fkiye ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce belli aral\u0131klarla randevula\u015farak bulu\u015fmas\u0131, asl\u0131nda bir\u00e7ok olumlu niteli\u011fi i\u00e7ermektedir. Bu sayede taraflar\u0131n birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 neler hissetti\u011fini anlamland\u0131rmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn hale gelmektedir. Fakat tabii her a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n z\u0131dd\u0131na ink\u0131lap etti\u011fi hat\u0131rlan\u0131rsa bu bulu\u015fma ili\u015fkilerinin geldi\u011fi konumda hi\u00e7bir sorunun ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia etmek de g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr.\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n Salt anl\u0131k hazlara odaklanan bireyci e\u011filimlerin ili\u015fki bi\u00e7imlerini ara\u00e7salla\u015ft\u0131rabildi\u011fini ifade eden Dr. Da\u011f, bunun kimseye yabanc\u0131 gelmeyen bir e\u011filim oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n Toplumsal yaln\u0131zla\u015fmaya kar\u015f\u0131 diren\u00e7 de var<\/strong><\/p>\n Fl\u00f6rt, sevgililik gibi kavramlar\u0131n artmas\u0131n\u0131n toplumsal yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa i\u015faret edip etmedi\u011fine ili\u015fkin ise Dr. Da\u011f, bireyin giderek tecrit edildi\u011fi bir d\u00f6nemde ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n \u201cBireylerin kendisini tamamen \u00e7evresinden soyutlamas\u0131 kadar birbiriyle \u00e7e\u015fitli \u015fekillerde etkile\u015fim kurmaya \u00e7abalamas\u0131 da toplumsal yaln\u0131zla\u015fmaya kar\u015f\u0131 olu\u015fan bir diren\u00e7 olarak de\u011ferlendirilebilir\u201d diyen Dr. Da\u011f, bu direncin neden siyasi, iktisadi ve zihniyetsel a\u00e7\u0131dan b\u00fct\u00fcnc\u00fcl bi\u00e7imde ele al\u0131nmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir soru oldu\u011funu kaydetti.<\/p>\n Gen\u00e7leri anlamadan de\u011fer aktar\u0131lamaz<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cGen\u00e7leri anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan onlara herhangi bir \u015fey anlatmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Gen\u00e7lere yekten yoz, sayg\u0131s\u0131z ve cahil gibi ideolojik etiketlerle yakla\u015fmak toplumsal sorunlar\u0131 art\u0131rmaktan ba\u015fka bir i\u015fe yaramaz\u201d diyen Dr. Da\u011f, yatay bir ileti\u015fim zemininin \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n Dr. Berat Da\u011f, \u201cDolay\u0131s\u0131yla gen\u00e7lerle olabildi\u011fince yatay d\u00fczlemde kalarak g\u00fcven, sevgi, sayg\u0131, vefa, sadakat, dayan\u0131\u015fma ve \u00f6zveri gibi de\u011ferler \u00fczerinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak anlaml\u0131 bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 olabilir. Daha a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u015fekilde gen\u00e7lerin hangi ara\u00e7lar, modalar ve sanatlarla neden ve nas\u0131l etkile\u015fime girdi\u011fi anla\u015f\u0131lmadan tarih\u00ee olumlu de\u011ferlerin toplumsalla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacak tart\u0131\u015fma mecralar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmak zordur.\u201d \u015feklinde s\u00f6zlerini tamamlad\u0131.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Kaynak: (BYZHA) Beyaz Haber Ajans\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00dcsk\u00fcdar \u00dcniversitesi \u0130nsan ve Toplum Bilimleri Fak\u00fcltesi Sosyoloji B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc\u2019nden Dr. Berat Da\u011f, 14 \u015eubat Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc dolay\u0131s\u0131yla sevgililik k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcndeki d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc de\u011ferlendirdi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":32264,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[3360,2080,2234,4894,1030],"class_list":["post-32263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-saglik","tag-erkek","tag-iliski","tag-iliskileri","tag-sevgililik","tag-toplum"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32263"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32263\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32265,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32263\/revisions\/32265"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32264"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bihavadis.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}